The Life of Emptiness

Do you know atoms? The smallest particles that constitute an object? Technically, about 99.99% of a helium atom is empty. This means it has that much-unoccupied space within them, well waste space. It's almost similar to all atoms. So, what if there is no waste space? simply saying, you are planning to hang a decor at home roof. you just need a meter of rope. But if you have a very long one what you do? You will just cut the required length. right? So what if we can do the same to our atoms, the basic building matter? what if we removed the unwanted space? Do we shrink? I don't know science. But with common sense, once space is removed, it becomes small and so we may shrink. If that happened then we all humans can live in 1/100th of place, we live right now. (Just an imagination)

Well, Is it possible now? No, I believe it's never. As same like that our life is made up of emptiness. You cannot live a life without complaining about even a small thing. Definitely once or many you end up living the worst moment at least once. But you want to worry about that? No. Never worry about the worst moments in life. They seem to cause emptiness in your life. The thought of what to do next, thoughts of self complaining, bad habits, depression, and self-destructive thoughts are like voids which come in everyone's life as like the empty space. But remember there are still protons, neutrons, and electrons inside the atom. This constitutes our life. You just need to learn to balance the life equations.

I won't say life is not of emptiness. But I say it must be with emptiness. If not so, then how will you learn to react, respond and live? So welcome the emptiness wholeheartedly and balance your life with happiness.

Have a good day!

In the process of Knowing Myself!!

With plenty of thoughts, I am penning down a few after a very long time. With constant procrastination, I missed my writing habit. My blogs died, My profiles became soulless, and I became a shit. I am always running with annoying thought of "I don't have time" and worrying about next... But it's time to overcome that.

Being a Homosapien who has only one ambition from my childhood, I failed. After transformation of different phases of life from child to kid to a boy to teen and towards man, still, I am pondering on how to achieve my ambition. Many goals came in between. Many things have been aimed, and few succeeded. Still, I haven't got my path towards my ambition. Looking back all these 23 years, the only thing I succeeded in is being alive. But I believe in connecting dots.

With constant thoughts about my ambition, one beautiful day, I planned to stop thinking about it. When you stop thinking about one thing, then definitely you will start thinking about another, right? In my case, I was already entangled in consistent thoughts about morning song and radio news, here and there with daydreams. But that's the time I clearly understood I am heading nowhere.

And there came a location change, which helped me to clear some clutter in my mind.
I started thinking of myself. I started to analyze what I am doing in my 24-hour span, which I am loosing on a daily basis. First two days, I was rigorous on noting down things I am doing. Then it started diminishing, and I lost track. Then I started focussing on my diet since I am profound about developing my family pack.

In three months of the span, I clearly understood what I should focus on. This can be said for all adults who are in their early 20's.

1. Learn about Yourself. Your strength and weakness. What you love, what you hate, and what you don't give a shit. And write it in your diary!
2. Learn financial planning. Learn to read statements and how money works.
3. Do something at least monthly once, which makes you happy inside.
4. Forget all and focus only on yourself till you turn 25. Whoever may be, let's think about them after 25.
5. Gain failures and make more mistakes. As dark is just an absence of light, success is just abate of failure.
6. Look through and Look forward!

Now I believe the first part of success is knowing about themselves first. What do you think?

On Search of Happiness

Almost every one of us are idiots, who search for happiness (sorry, but its true). You see, on our entire life, the only goal everyone wants is "To be Happy". But everyone fails to be happy in many situations or maybe even at their whole life. Have you ever thought and analyzed this happiness and depression pattern?

Happiness is completely based on your Thoughts. The first enemy to destroy your happiness is your "Thoughts on requirements".Yes! There is a difference between need and requirement. Many people around the world still strive to fulfill their needs while many long to fulfill their requirements. Deep down you just need to realize and understand that your requirements are not needs which have to be fulfilled. It's just a thing which may elevate you up for extra comfort.

Very few of us understand those things. There are various things contribute to your sadness even though when you are happy. Best one of them is Social media's. Do you know for what it is been created? Just to be in touch with people, to make new friends & to share information, career interests, ideas, and other forms of expression on virtual communities. But now this has become the place for obsession and addiction. Being truthful, you are very happy and you live a happy life. But longing for things and your greed intrude you easily and make you think that you don't have anything to be happy. And these thoughts not only make you sad but question your existence.

Always remember and say it to yourself - "I am happy". You are blessed with food and shelter. You have beautiful friends to surround you and take care for you. You being a blessed person, you are very happy and you can bring down the happiness to others. Let's cherish Happiness around you by carrying a smile!!

Cheers!!

P.S: You can also bring smiles to many children by helping them to learn by joining an NGO and volunteer for teaching the underprivileged kids. You can also help out the needed kids by becoming their scribes. (Mail me for more info & contact)